Friday, February 12, 2016

The Car Family

The Car Family


Last week we stopped by the Car’s apartment to give them an article about the oldest son in the family, Mulbah Car. Mulbah is finishing high school this year and has been one of the best high school running backs in the United States this year, gaining over 1,600 yards and scoring 33 touchdowns. He has been heavily recruited by major colleges but has committed to play for University of Houston next season. Mulbah is a very modest kid and active in the Church. He spends a lot of his time looking after his younger siblings while his mother is working long hours. His father is in Liberia and he hasn’t had contact with him for many years.
Mulbah Car is one of the best running backs in America. He will play for University of Houston in Fall of 2016
The Car’s live in a small apartment that houses 7 people when you count the mother Oretha, her 5 children and a family friend named Wilfred who stays there so he can get to work. His family lives in another part of the city but Wilfred has no transportation to get to Whataburger where he works. There home also seems to be a gathering place for many children who live in the same apartment complex where many Africans live and often look after each other’s children the same as in Africa.
Mulbah wasn’t home but his mother, Oretha and his sister Blessing were. Oretha can read very little so Eileen read the article we brought to her. She was beside herself with joy. She shouted and cried. She couldn’t believe that such an article was talking about her son. Blessing also shouted and laughed for joy because her name was mentioned in the article. They both hugged Eileen so tight and we so happy to have the article which included 3 pictures of Mulbah.
Watch Mulbah Run  Signing Day Video
 

On another day we stopped by the Car’s apartment. This time only Oretha and Blessing was there and we saw a most amazing mother/daughter event. Oretha was sitting on the couch and Blessing was seated in front of her on the floor; her hair braided in tight rows on her head. It looked very nice I thought.
Oretha selects strands of artificial hair to sew in Blessings braided rows
Then I noticed Oretha had a large curved needle like an upholstery needle and she was literally sewing something into Blessing’s hair. It was quite dark in the room as African homes often are. But in the dim light I could see what looked like long strands of artificial hair that Oretha was sewing into the rows of braids on Blessing’s head.
Layer by layer, fake hair is sewn into Blessing's tight braids.
It took a while to see just how she was doing it. Starting at the back of her head she sewed in a layer of artificial hair but running the curved needle through the braided rows on Blessing’s head. As she finished one layer she would start sewing another layer about an inch up higher toward the crown of Blessing’s head. She repeated this process several times with each layer of hair covering the previous layers.
Eventually she had artificial hair covering Blessings entire head. It looked like real hair and you could not see where the individual layers had been attached. Oretha combed and brushed the hair and it looked so real. You would never guess that it was artificial hair at all. In spite of the poor light I had to try to take pictures with Eileen’s phone. Blessing was so delighted with the end result. The rows of braids were completely hidden and it looked just like her natural hair. Oretha told us this is done commonly among African women who are very particular about their hair.

Blessing shows of her new hair. Looks so natural!!
Little Gloria has braids. But Jaimylynn's curls are sewn on!  
Folded to the side Jaimylynn's fake curls expose her braided rows.
A better view of how the new curls are attached

Friday, January 1, 2016

Keepin' it weird in Austin - Halloween to Christmas

 FROM AFRICA TO AUSTIN
 
Texas state capital from the graffiti wall
We arrived in Austin just before Eileen's birthday. Spent our first week enjoying a surprise visit from daughters Liz and Emily and trying to learn our way around the city which is very confusing with crazy traffic 24/7. We did our best to keep Austin weird by adding to our famous graffiti wall.
A man's home is his castle
Hangout for young people
Liz touches up a painting

A Friendly Dragon












We've spent most of our time trying to find the African members in Shoal Creek Ward. It is quite the challenge. Many in the same family have different last names. Many live outside the ward boundaries. Many have nonworking phone numbers. Others have moved to who knows where. Some do not speak English which makes getting work difficult. Others have visa issues so they can't work legally. Others have very little education and don't read or write well. So we have our work cut out for us.
Daniel and Ricky are two of our new friends from Liberia. They're cousins.
Christmas day was very quiet for us. Spent the morning relaxing, worked out at the gym, talked with family members for a few hours by the time we reached everyone. Had a great Christmas dinner with our Bishop's family. Barbecued briskit (this is Texas after all where barbecue is always in style).


Christmas night found us at Casa Marianella, a refugee shelter that invited us to their Christmas celebration. We had no idea what to expect but it was a great experience. We first met 3 men from Somalia. Then a guy from Ivory Coast. Another from Peru and his friend from Ethiopia. There was lots of food from various countries. We didn't know what much of it was but it was tasty! Soon they cranked up the African music and people started dancing in a big circle. It looked very tribal even though there were people from non-African countries and staff members and volunteers as well. It was lots of fun. And for mom the best part was when a woman from Somalia gave Eileen her tiny little boy to hold while she danced. The little guy went right to sleep and was snug as a bug in his little blanket.

Delicious food from many countries
We stood out from the crowd with our black name tags, my white shirt and tie and Eileen nicely dressed. People were curious to talk about us. A woman from Congo said she had been to our church before and wanted to come again. The man from Ethiopia was very proud that his country has a long history of Christianity. He asked me for a Book of Mormon so I went to the car and got him one. But perhaps the best thing was that we got to visit for several minutes with the Executive Director of Casa and even longer with their grant writer and development person. They both gave us lots of good information and no doubt we will be looking to them as a resource in the future. It was a great night and we felt very productive.
BFF's from 3 different countries!

Saturday, November 14, 2015

Mission Reassignment to Texas



THE REASSIGNMENT

Eileen and I got reassigned to the Texas San Antonio Mission on Sept 8. We were told the reassignment process would take several weeks but we got a lesson in the amount of pull that Mission Presidents and Stake Presidents can have. We told the Mission President we were ready for the reassignment on a Saturday and he put us in touch with the Stake President who transferred our membership records from Kansas to Texas on Sunday. I got a letter from my cardiologist stating I was fit for service on Monday and e-mailed it to the Stake President that evening. The Stake President sent the letter and other paperwork on to a committee at church headquarters on Tuesday morning. By Tuesday afternoon the missionary Medical Committee had cleared me for service. The Stake President told the Mission President he could request our reassignment to the TSAM. President Slaughter made that request on Wednesday and contacted us on Thursday to tell us the reassignment had been approved but we would have to be set apart to our new mission. We talked to the Stake President on Friday and he set us apart on Sunday afternoon. Our membership records were sent back to Kansas on Sunday evening. Eileen and I started working in the Mission Office at 9:30 a.m. on Monday morning.

President Slaughter with his Assistants in his office
THE OFFICE
Our first week was pretty hectic as we had no idea what to expect and no preparation for the transfers that would be taking place that week. Things are quite busy for the office staff when transfers take place. The week basically works like this.

The week before transfers the Mission President and his assistants go into the President’s Office, open a big board that shows all the missionaries and where they are serving. They remove the picture cards of all those who are going home in a few days and they add the cards of all the new missionaries that will arrive in a few days. Then they begin to put companionships together and move people around in the mission. They stay in that room until late afternoon when the job is done. Then they close the board and lock it so nobody knows what changes are being made until the following week at the transfer meetings.                                  

Car Czar & Referral Queen Spencer from Denver
Elder Williams takes care of 100+ apartments
On transfer week the missionaries going home all come to San Antonio on Monday for their last two days in the mission. On Tuesday they have a final meeting in the morning and office missionaries provide a luncheon. Then they go to the San Antonio Temple, followed by a formal dinner at the mission home---provided by the office missionaries. Early Wednesday morning the outgoing missionaries travel to the airport and catch an early morning flight home. By late morning the arriving missionaries are picked up at the airport and taken to the mission office to get some things they need for the mission and have lunch. From there they visit the Alamo and end up at the Mission Home for a dinner and discussion with the Mission President. The days are long for everyone. On Thursday the new missionaries meet their first companion and other missionaries learn where they will be transferred to.

Sister Greenwood smiles at the transfer board as she will be going home in a few days
Elders Calley and Hilario discuss a referral given to Sister Spencer
There are two transfer meetings to get all of this done. The first is at 8 a.m. in San Antonio for those in the southern half of the mission, which goes all the way to the border of Mexico. At 2 p.m. there is a second meeting for those in the northern half of the mission in Austin. There is lots of excitement at both of these meetings and tons of energy afterwards as companionships pick up their mail that has come in over the last few weeks, get their bikes if they are going to a bike area, say goodbye to their old companion and make their way out of the parking lot which looks like a Toyota dealership that is giving a free bike rack with every car they sell.
The next 5 weeks will be pretty routine. My job was to manage all of the 100+ apartments that house the missionaries and to pay all the bills associated with housing including utilities. I also worked with the ‘moving Elders’ who move furniture around as we open and close apartments which is a constant process because wards divide and stake boundaries get changed and this changes the areas where the missionaries work so they have to relocate.
76 of our 200+ missionaries are Spanish Speaking and a few are Sign Language missionaries to the deaf community


Eileen was the “face” of the office. She answered the phone, greeted everyone that came in, sent welcome letters out to incoming missionaries, arranged flight plans for those coming in or going home, prepared the picture cards for the transfer board, etc. Her computer skills improved a lot over the short time we were in the office.

We worked in the office for just 5 weeks. Long enough to see how it worked and how important those who work in the office are to the smooth operation of the mission, which has lots of moving parts. But now we are in Austin working with refugees and immigrants from Africa and other areas.

Tuesday, November 3, 2015

Mission Reassignment Possibilities



Eagle Pass, San Antonio Food Bank and Haven for Hope

When we first thought about a possible reassignment to the Texas San Antonio Mission we met with Mission President James Slaughter to see what his thoughts were and what might be some possibilities for us. He mentioned an assignment in Eagle Pass, right on the Mexico border as a possibility. He mentioned a new program called “Just Serve” which someone described to us as “Match.com” for volunteers. He also mentioned the San Antonio Food Bank as a possible assignment---either the food bank itself or their soup kitchen called Haven for Hope. We decided to check the possibilities out.


That Sunday we drove 3 hours to the border and attended Eagle Pass Branch 1 which is English speaking. It was an interesting branch and Eagle Pass is an interesting community. The old part of the town is a combination “Small town America” and Mexico with tiendas and tacuerias. The oil boom in that area of Texas has stimulated growth there so there is a new part of town with new stucco houses and developments everywhere. We met the branch president who would have loved to have us serving there.

Eagle Pass is right on the border of Mexico

                                                                                              
One of two bridges to Mexico                                     Sign welcoming visitors to Eagle Pass

Then we visited the S.A. Food Bank and we were amazed with the size of the operation and how much the 108 employees there loved their jobs. We met with the CEO who happens to be LDS and trying to get a senior couple there for some time. He was a very impressive guy and before we left we agreed to give it a try. He set us up with food bank t-shirts and had a schedule for the following week- 4 days at the food bank and 1 day at Haven for Hope.

San Antonio Food Bank feeds 58,000 people
a week in 16 south Texas counties
 
 The S.A. Foodbank depends on thousands of volunteers and only 108 employees to grow, sort, ship and prepare food for hundreds of distribution sites throughout southern Texas.

Thousands of pounds of vegetables are produce in this 27 acre garden
                                          These vegetables will go to school kids & families
        Hundreds of volunteers labor in the hot Texas sun to produce tons of fresh vegetables

The energy conscious food bank uses solar panels on it's warehouse roof for cooling and recycled water along with drip irrigation to grow crops in their 27 acre garden.    


Our first day at the food bank we worked with about 60 other volunteers in the warehouse doing what they call “dry sort” where they had huge pallets loaded with all kinds of miscellaneous food donations from all over San Antonio---about 9 tons worth. Some were in cases like canned fruit, soup, etc. But most was just in cans, bottles and boxes to be sorted for expiration date, nutritional information, bulging cans or damaged bottles. Every food item was re-boxed in banana boxes and put on a pallet according to what it was---snack food, cereal, protein, even pet food. The second day we sorted orders from the hundreds of food sites and organized and filed them for tax purposes since the food bank is a non-profit organization.

Each week the donations are brought into the warehouse where volunteers will sort several tons of food and check for damage, expiration dates, etc. In 3 hours these folks will sort about 18,000 pounds of food that will yield 14,000 meals.




            Sorted food goes to the warehouse and from there to trucks. The
            trucks take the food to distribution sites that serve 58,000 people


Other days we worked in the “kids kitchen” making 4,500 lunches for school kids in summer feeding programs. Each day was a different meal. One day was mac and cheese with fruit cocktail. Another day was roast beef sandwiches made from high end sliced beef that had been damaged in the packaging process. Everything had to be very sanitary and portion controlled. We worked alongside young people who were training to get jobs in the food service industry.


The Kids Cafe prepared over 1,000,000 meals for kids at summer feeding programs all over south Texas



 

Volunteers assemble 4,000 to 5,000 meals each day which are very healthy. Meals are heat sealed and shipped to kids each day.


                       Prison Trustees learn culinary skills, warehouse management
                       and other skills as well as how to interview & write a resume.

The most enjoyable but most difficult though was working at Haven for Hope; a soup kitchen on the south side of San Antonio. Haven serves 3 meals per day, 365 days a year for 500 or more people who are homeless, in the onsite detox center, in the family housing units, or are just plain hungry.  


Haven for Hope is a huge complex that provides shelter for homeless families, training & rehab for prisoners, treatment for addicts, and meals for 500+ people three times a day. Served by volunteers
 
You see every kind of person there; families with small children that are just down on their luck; people who are mentally ill; drug or alcohol addicted; cross dressers; ex-convicts in education or job training programs provided at Haven, etc. It was very gratifying to serve those folks, many of whom would say, “God bless you for your service” or “Thank you for your service.” One young father with a wife and two children saw our black nametags and said, “Please pray for our family.”
Another young man asked us to talk with him after we finished and we gave him a Book of Mormon and phone number of the missionaries working in South San Antonio. Everyone should have an experience like volunteering at Haven. It’s good for the soul!


 This homeless lady was fun to talk to. She wore this heavy coat all day every day even though the temperature might have been over 100 degrees in San Antonio.